A few weeks ago, I realized that several of the books I
review are deep, dark, and depressing. I’ve chosen books that discuss homelessness, random deadly diseases, attempted suicide, child molestation, dystopia government, murderous crime, and ones with morbid titles like As I Lay Dying. I figured I’d change it up
and pick something on the lighter side: Man’s
Search for Meaning* by Viktor Frankl. Because who isn’t down for a casual
existential reflection on whether your life is worth anything at all.
Exciting
news for all of you readers: Frankl thinks that your life can be meaningful!
Frankl, a Jewish, Austrian boy born in 1905, practiced as an esteemed
psychologist and neurologist until he and his wife were deported to Auschwitz
in 1944. He spent three years in concentration camps thereafter. Unlike many of
the camp’s prisoners, Frankl was interested in his deplorable environment from
a professional standpoint. As he suffered, he studied his own mind and the
responses of his fellow men and women, hoping that he’d eventually be freed and
have the chance to share his observations. He believed that looking to the
future gave him something to live for, which contributed to his health both
mentally and physically. “In the words of Nietzsche: ‘He who has a Why to live
for can bear almost any How’” (Frankl, ix).
Upon
liberation—an event that he poignantly described—Frankl shared a new kind of
psychotherapy: logotherapy. Logotherapy derives from the belief that “the
striving to find a meaning in one’s life is the primary motivational force in
man” (Frankl, 99). Frankl claims that
when ask ourselves-- Lyndsay, what is the
meaning of life? —we’re asking the wrong question. (When we say – Lyndsay, it obviously involves watching
Breaking Bad while snuggling your dachshunds – we’re giving the wrong
answer). Instead of framing the question in a vague, all encompassing way, we
should be looking at minute moments. Each individual moment is an opportunity
to find meaning in life. Consequently, “meaning” means different things for different people. Frankl explains, “To
put the question in general terms would be comparable to the question posed to
a chess champion: ‘Tell me, Master, what is the best move in the world?’ There
simply is no such thing as the best or even a good move apart from a particular
situation in a game and the particular personality of one’s opponent. The same
holds for human existence” (Frankl, 108). My move is different than your move.
Checkmate, bitches.
Of course,
there’s this whole predestination debacle. Not in the religious sense, but in
the nature-nurture sense-- the notion that how you’re biologically built + what
your upbringing is like = who you are as
a person. Frankl says that based on his experiences at the hands of the Nazis,
he can confidently assert that men are able to act freely in response to their
conditions. Condemnation to a concentration camp does not automatically necessitate
pessimism, death, or meaninglessness. Namely, prisoners can triumph over their
suffering, and in doing so discover a deep inner value and sense of
achievement. According to Frankl, suffering is inevitable. By viewing that
suffering as a challenge and an opportunity to rise above, your life is
rendered meaningful. As Frankl saw all of the horrific agony around him, he
trusted that those who were dying and suffering were still capable of leading
meaningful lives.
In addition
to responding to suffering, logotherapy holds that we can experience meaning in
life through creating/doing and experiencing/encountering others (Frankl, 111).
Thus, his psychotherapy applies to all humans at all points in time. As such,
he imbues even the most mundane choices with great import. In logotherapy, we
have the freedom to act in certain ways. Similar to Spiderman, with great freedom comes great responsibility; you have
a responsibility towards yourself to act in a way that dignifies your life.
The first portion of the book
chronicles his time at the hands of Hitler and the second half introduces a
cohesive ideology that he hopes to relate to the masses. In the former, I was
intrigued in a way that felt almost sadistic. Because I cannot possibly imagine
the awfulness that Frankl and millions of others endured, I am curious,
sympathetic, despondent, and astounded all in one. Truthfully, I have not read much
literature about the Holocaust, and most of my knowledge stems from museums and
history textbooks. I was shocked to learn about the terror of the Capos—prisoners
who were entrusted by SS guards to reign over other prisoners (Frankl, 4). They
were among their own people and yet so many of them exercised their privilege
in the form of immense cruelty. How is this not blatantly evident and advertised
in history books? If it is… how have I not taken that to heart and remembered
it? Man’s Search for Meaning
enlightened me on historical facts of the Holocaust from a first-hand
perspective, and for that I am grateful.
The latter half was existentially
interesting. I have the utmost respect for Frankl; he was a remarkable man (he
passed in 1997 at age 92!) who did a lot of good for a lot of people,
reassuring them of their value in the world. He was an incredibly smart man
with an incredibly impressive moral compass. When speaking of his liberation
and his fellow prisoner’s difficulty in accepting their own fate and the fate
of their tormenters, he states, “no one has the right to do wrong, even if
wrong has been done to them” (Frankl, 91). And I’m over here ready to bitch
slap someone if they stand on the wrong side of the escalator in the city. The
man behind the book deserves 5 out of 5 camel humps. The book itself, admittedly, deserves 3
out of 5 camel humps. As an absurdist, I’m biased. I think that the pursuit
of meaning in life is fundamentally impossible (uplifting, I know). So, I take
what he says with a grain of salt, acknowledging that while I don’t buy what
he’s selling, he still has thought provoking ideas that help me further articulate
what I personally espouse.
*Frankl, Victor. Man's Search for Meaning. Boston: Beacon Press, 2006. Print.
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